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Why an Indian sitting in America can still worry about the country
Posted by Yashika Totlani Khanna
on
8:16 PM
After
several discussions with friends about Indian General Elections 2014 and the
rise of the ‘chosen one’, I obviously realized that people had their own strong
views about governance. For the people who supported our next PM (which was a
majority), I heard several arguments about why he was the man for the moment.
While I gave a patient ear to all that they had to say, I wasn’t particularly
convinced about a lot of other things that were being said. Being a journalist,
I stuck to my stand of objectivity. But to my utter surprise (and not a pleasant
one), some close friends came out and said that I shouldn’t be concerned about
India while I enjoy my ‘comfortable’ stay in the US. This post is for those
people who lost the debate the minute they brought up this argument.
I am an
Indian citizen with an Indian passport. Till I renounce my citizenship and take
an oath to be a US citizen (or any other citizen for that matter), no
individual has any business telling me that I shouldn’t have opinions about
India. Whether I live in the United States or Timbuktu, I will always have a
stake in what’s going on in my country because it will always affect me
directly. Whenever I decide to return to my country, and ‘my’ is the keyword
here, I will have to face the political going-ons that would affect my life on
a daily basis. Even if I live elsewhere, I have a sense of ownership over India.
My family lives there. My life exists there. My bearings lie there. And I shall
have as many opinions as I had back when I lived there about politics, leaders,
elections… and whatever else happens under the big blue sky in India. Don’t
tell me that it’s not my business. I give credence to your arguments for as
long as you give me rational ones. The minute you say I can’t have opinions
because I live abroad, you have crossed the line and stepped into my personal
space. And you can then expect barbed attacks back about your pettiness.
I also
worry about Indian politics because I am a journalist and that is my sphere of
work. After spending years bringing election results and political doings to
you on your television screens, I have developed a big appetite for governmental
opinions. An even bigger appetite for showing the correct place to people
who sound brainwashed by one political party and forget all objectivity and
thrust their views down your throat – was an obvious aftereffect. You are the
people who bring the country down. Your blind faith voted the UPA 2 to power
five years ago. When you now scream allegiance to the BJP, I see you as a loser
who knows nothing better than backing the winning horse. You have no sense of
direction and no barometer to check the feasibility of your politician. You
pick up one issue (economic growth this time) and chose to turn a blind-eye to
everything else (including a politician’s past). You close your eyes to reason
and give all types of arguments to glorify your point of view and vilify
anything else that stands in your way. You try to look sorted, but you are not.
Hence you raise your voice and find solace in being rude. You try to look
selfless (‘my candidate will work to improve my country’s economy’) when
actually you are very selfish (do right to equality and expression not matter
in your books?). And when you run out of all your little arguments, you start attacking
people’s personal space.
Third
argument, my global image. Anywhere
I go in the world, I am branded as an Indian. Which I am and which I am proud
of. First, no politician will tell me that I should move to Pakistan because I
care for a certain group of people (its called humanity). Secondly, no person
should forget that whatever happens in India today will affect the way people
perceive me (or you) living (or travelling) anywhere else in the world tomorrow.
When the horrible attacks of 9/11 happened, the Muslims living in the US had
done nothing to abet them. And yet, these were the same people who had to deal
with stone-pelting on
their houses, death threats to their children, sporadic arrests by the
authorities for 'questioning' and 'random' checks at airports for all brown people (the malice still continues). So yes, I am concerned about what happens in my
country. Because it affects me more personally more than it affects you. Because
that becomes my identity the minute I step out of the country. I am seen as
an Indian everywhere I go in world and so all matters Indian are very much my
business.
And lastly,
I shall not have my own countrymen treat me like an alien. It’s unacceptable.
No one tells me where my heart lies. You only show age-old stereotypes by
saying that I lead a ‘comfortable’ life here. You know nothing about my life,
so save the branding. And maybe upgrade your world-views and step out of that narrow
alley you call your mind. It’s not doing you any good and it certainly seems to have no grey matter in it.
So YES, I
will continue to have as many views about Indian politics as I want. Close your
eyes and ears if you don’t like them. Run away and never look back like an
ostrich if it bothers you. But don’t try to smother my views on the pretext
that I don’t physically live there. Because honestly, where I live is none of
your business. Maybe find more solid
arguments for your debate next time and don’t harp on your own insecurities and
stoop to the extent of making personal attacks.